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Strange day yesterday. The night before last I accidentally left a portfolio full of resumes, business cards, checkbooks and the like in the back of a cab and woke up to a text message from the good samaritan who found it offering its return. We traded texts and ended up deciding that he would just leave it at the security desk at his apartment building and I’d swing by to pick it up. Upon arrival I realize that he lives in the same building in Flatiron that two other friends just moved into, two floors above.

Then last night I have a dinner date, followed by drinks, and after walking her home and arriving at her front door am surprised to find that she lives in the same three-floor building in Williamsburg that a friend I’ve known for 14 years lives in, two floors below.

This morning the Facebook intarwebz tell me that the same dinner date is also, completely independent of me, mutual friends with a former downstairs neighbor of mine from when I first moved to New York.

Weird.

For those following, in the beginning of June I got laid off from the job for which I moved to NYC, had been at for several years, and for which I first began interviewing somewhere in the neighborhood of 2004.  I spent a few weeks half-heartedly looking for work before packing up and taking off for a month out west; I had two weddings to hit in Seattle on back-to-back weekends on July anyway, so I decided to make a trek of it. San Diego, L.A., Seattle, the Oregon coast, back down through the bay to Lake Nacimiento, and back up to Ashland and Crater Lake before flying out from Seattle again…

In any case, tomorrow’s officially my last day at work. I should be back in the swing of things after that…

And lest I sound like I’m in a bad mood about it, fear not. In a certain sense I had an overwhelming sense of relief when I got let go, not the least reason for which being that the job had taken a pretty wicked toll on me over these past few years, and I was (and am) happy to be rid of it.

People who insist on using the word “everyday” as a noun instead of an adjective.  Please stop. All of you. Immediately.

Two weeks after getting laid off I finally had a chance to get out of town and relax for a bit, such opportunity happening to coincide with both Father’s Day and the celebration of my cousin’s wife’s birthday, so on Friday bailed on NYC to DC for the weekend.  Given that severance will, in fact, run out in a few months, and that I don’t have too many demands on my time these days, I decided to do the economical thing and hop the bus to DC rather than take a train or fly. I must say, having done the Chinatown bus thing on a few occasions, that BoltBus is far superior — the free wireless works fine, there are AC outlets at a number of the seats, both buses (on the trip down and the trip back) were way cleaner than any of the Chinatown buses I’d ever encountered, and apparently BoltBus doesn’t stop in Baltimore on its NY/DC route. I didn’t book either leg far enough in advance to score the $1 fares that they offer from time to time, but still… Not a bad way to travel if you’ve got the time.

The weekend was pretty chill. This was probably the first time I’d hit DC in a few years and actually spent all of my time hanging out with family and not trekking into the city to go out drinking. Monday aside I got a chance to run twice each day, which was good. Dad and new wife are good. Aunt and uncle are well, as is grandmother. Cousin and wife are also doing well, and their son’s become quite the talker. Nothing bad to report.

The trip back yesterday was a bit of a pain in the ass once we hit Lincoln Tunnel traffic, which took an hour and a half to plow through, making me a bit late for my scheduled cocktail engagement with a fellow departed colleague.  Had a few drinks before meeting up with a friend to hit the Nightlife Preservation Community launch party at M2.  I normally avoid that place like the plague, but the ever-gracious Steve Lewis got us right past the door, the drinks were free, and the lineup was pretty badassed… Martinez Brothers, Louie Vega, Q-Tip, Funkmaster Flex, Junior Vasquez, etc. I hadn’t caught the Martinez Brothers before but was pleasantly surprised to to hear them drop both “French Kiss” and “Night of the Jaguar”. Good stuff. Definitely had a few too many drinks, though, as my White Castle –> street taco –> Dunkin’ Donuts –> ice cream run on the way home evidenced.

Back to the gym…

12:17 PM C: WHAT?!?!
no way
no fucking way
12:19 PM me: yep yep
12:20 PM i’m officially on vacation
out of office is already turned on
3 months off!
C: WHAT?!?!
what happened?
where are you?
12:22 PM well, this solves the July issue
you’re coming to CA with me in July, then, right?
12:24 PM me: haha
fuck, why not?
C: seriously
is it wrong that I’m happy for you?
12:25 PM me: hahaha
C: is that just totally fucked up of me?
me: no, not at all
C: I mean, I’ll wallow and drink through the pain if you want but secretlly…
I’m so ecstatic for you
plus, you’re making more in 3 months than I make in a year
so you can suck it
12:28 PM me: hahaha
C: I have interesting news on my end, too
12:29 PM me: yeah?
C: they are hiring in CA for a position
so hopefully something will open up
me: no shit?
C: not sure who else is up for the position, but I’ve got people “taking care of me” is what I was told
me: was funny… was just talking to a guy i know who’s already mentioned someone who may be interested in picking me up
C: cheers to living rent free…
12:30 PM oh, you could have a new job by Monday
me: and to the extent there’s any spot in his outfit, there’s a good chance it would be in… L.A.
C: I’m not worried about you professionally
I’m more worried about the fact that you fucking hate that job
and by default, life
see, how everything comes together??
we just gotta hang in there
12:31 PM me: yeah, exactly
i mean, they’re basically paying me to hang out all summer
12:32 PM which money i should not fritter away, admittedly
but still
not a bad deal
brb
C: fuck you
it’s like you’re a summer intern :)
12:33 PM me: exactly
and now i’m gonna go drink like one
:)
C: oh nice

Hard Time

I finally had to head back to NYC from sunny SoCal on Monday afternoon, but suffice it to say I had an absolutely wonderful time in L.A. and San Diego. As chance would have it, one of my best friends from college, who now lives in DC, was in San Diego beginning on Saturday; another friend from school, who lives in NYC but whose family lives in San Diego, was also in town; a third friend from Boston was out visiting; a fourth was having a birthday party on Saturday… The posse was in full effect.

The trip got off to a rather inauspicious start when I showed up to the American ticket counter at JFK at around 9:30am to check my bag — a scant few minutes after checking the status of my flight — and finding that my direct to LAX had been unceremoniously canceled. Rather than sit seven hours at the airport and hope for the best on the 4:30pm, I had them stick me in a car service up to LGA and grab an 11:20am through DFW (one of my least favorite airports, not the least reason for which being that it’s near impossible to find much more than junk food in the terminal). It ended up working out, but seriously… No fun.

I’d never really spent much time in downtown Los Angeles to speak of, and, in fact, the last time I’d even passed through I got a distinctly ghetto impression of it. Admittedly, I’d flown out for a job interview from NC (on a flight that I believe was delayed that time, rather than outright canceled) a day after interviewing in NYC for the job I have now, arriving somewhere around midnight rather tired only to realize there’d been some sort of mix-up with the friend I’d planned on staying with and was, therefore,  sitting at LAX around 11:30 the night before the meeting with nowhere to stay. I ended up on some weird shuttle thing to civilization and landed a room not too far from the office I was supposed to head to in the morning, but only after driving up what felt like the total tailpipe of the city… Garbage in the streets, riff-raff and hooligans out on every street corner, everything looking rather run down. Not an area I wanted to be wandering with my garment bag late at night seeking accommodation.

Anyway, things seem to have changed quite a bit. The friend whose loft I stayed at near 6th and Main is, as chance would have it, a mere stone’s throw from a total of four other friends’ two respective lofts and a smattering of bars and restaurants that folks  have informed me is only increasing in size.  Based on some of the ones I saw and how crowded, it seemed like the influx of both residents and cool bars/restaurants/etc.  may have reached enough of a critical mass to tip the development scales, so to speak, and keep up the momentum for building things up around there. Sweet.

When we weren’t out and about in the neighborhood, though, I had the chance to see a some friends I hadn’t seen in a while; bum around Hollywood and Beverly Hills munching; hit the beach in Santa Monica; etc. Another friend was having a birthday party in Cardiff by the Sea on Saturday night, so we made the (three hours with traffic) drive down to San Diego that evening and, not having thought to try booking a room for the Saturday night over Memorial Day weekend until that afternoon — stayed at he spa /resort my buddy in town from DC had arranged a room at across the street from Mission Beach. Good times.

I’m glad to have gone back.  Despite having grown up in San Diego until I was around 12, I hadn’t actually been  in 18 years or so, and was mildly surprised to see a lot of things — signs, buildings — that I still felt like I recognized.  Sense memory, perhaps.  And certain features — physical landmarks and the like, distances between places I recalled — definitely seemed smaller and shorter than I’d remembered… A function of being, well, bigger and older now, I suppose.

We ended up dragging out our San Diego stint an extra night after a morning of imbibing on Sunday and deciding to rent a boat for the afternoon. I never thought I’d be on a boat.

But now? Back to work…

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